• affable, bland, comely, complacent, complaisant, endearing, friendly, gentle, gracious, meek, soft, suave, sweet
• affably, endearingly, gently
• friendliness, gentry, loving-kindness, suavity
• to make at cheeses, to play at cheeses
• have a run in one's stockings
• her stocking has a ladder
• have a good word for everyone, have a kind word for everyone